Parents sometimes don’t remain in the same area after they divorce. This means that one parent won’t be in the same area as their children, so they will have to determine how to make long-distance co-parenting work. While this isn’t always easy, it’s possible to find options that make the situation easier for everyone involved.
One of the most challenging aspects of long-distance co-parenting is trying to ensure that the children get to spend time with the distant parent to bridge the gap between in-person visits.
1: Virtual visits can encourage the parent-child relationship
In a long-distance co-parenting situation, being able to have the child spend equal time with both parents likely won’t happen. The children will usually have to wait until they spend a prolonged time with the distant parent. This could mean that the child goes months without seeing that parent in person. Virtual visitation is one option that parents and children can use to bridge the gap between those in-person visits.
2: Schedules should be based on the child
The schedule for when the parent and child will have their virtual visits should be set based on the child’s schedule, even if that means the other parent has to wake in the middle of the night to spend time with their child.
3: Parents must communicate often
Another important thing for parents to do is to communicate often. This is a chance for the distant parent to find out how the child is doing. These discussions should cover things like the child’s schooling and medical care.
When you’re in the midst of a long-distance parenting relationship, the parenting plan is critical. This should include the parenting time schedule, as well as specific terms related to virtual visits. Ensuring the entire parenting plan accurately meets the child’s needs is crucial, so it may be beneficial to work with someone familiar with these matters.
