Child support mediation can feel more stressful when you do not have the information needed to explain your finances. In Washington, state guidelines and forms use both parents’ income and certain child-related expenses to calculate support. Bringing organized documents can help you discuss possible terms more clearly.
Consider bringing these five records to your mediation session:
1. Pay statements and tax returns
Bring current pay statements and federal tax returns from the previous two years. These documents help confirm how much you earn and which amounts may be subtracted from your income. Include proof of bonuses, commissions, self-employment earnings or other income that may not appear on a regular paycheck.
2. Work-related child care records
Collect invoices, receipts or payment histories for day care, after-school care or other work-related care. Washington treats these costs separately from the regular monthly payment. Parents generally divide them using the same percentages used for child support, so records can show what you pay and how often.
3. Health insurance and medical expenses
Bring documents showing the cost of health insurance for your child. Also gather receipts for copays, prescriptions, dental care and other expenses not covered by insurance.
4. Your parenting plan or residential schedule
Your current schedule can help both parents discuss where the child lives and how they handle recurring expenses. Parenting time does not automatically determine how much either parent pays, but the residential arrangement may be relevant.
5. Existing orders and payment records
Bring copies of current or previous support orders and a payment history. If the Washington Division of Child Support handles your case, include statements available through the agency.
Prepare for a focused discussion
A mediator helps you and the other parent discuss possible solutions but does not decide the support amount. Review your records before the session and ask whether the mediator requires anything else. Complete information can reduce unanswered questions and keep the discussion focused on your child’s needs.
