During divorce, pets often feel like family. You might feel anxious about who keeps the dog or cat after the split. Mediation offers a way to reach a fair, thoughtful solution without leaving it to the court.
How Washington law views pets in divorce
In Washington, pets are treated as property. Courts generally divide them like any other asset. Mediation gives you the chance to move beyond that framework and focus on the pet’s well-being instead of strict ownership rules.
What mediation allows in pet-related disputes
Mediation lets both parties create detailed, practical agreements—like shared custody, weekly schedules, or responsibility for vet bills. You can include holidays, emergency care plans, and even preferred routines. It’s flexible and tailored to your pet’s needs.
Preparing to discuss your pet in mediation
Organize your pet’s medical history, daily routine, and expenses. Documentation like vet records and training costs can support your position. This shows your level of involvement and commitment, which helps shape a balanced agreement.
When one party resists compromise
If one person refuses shared time or financial input, a mediator can propose alternatives—such as primary custody with scheduled visits. Mediation encourages negotiation, helping you reach a solution centered on the pet, not just preferences or resentment.
Why mediation works better than court
Courts treat pets as items, not companions. Mediation allows you to consider emotional bonds and practical realities. You get to decide what arrangement makes sense instead of accepting a rigid legal outcome.
Once you agree, the mediator drafts a written plan. Both parties sign it, and the court can approve it as part of your divorce order. If things change later, like relocation or health issues, you can update the plan through mediation again.
